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Wedding invitations, keeping it fun but real

Wedding Invitations can oftentimes be a difficult issue to clear up. The whole thing of who to invite and who not to invite can be a difficult bone of contention, which if not done properly can leave bad feelings long after the event itself is over.

Very often the bottom line with wedding invitations is dependant upon financial restraints. When it is just not practical to invite everybody that both parties feel should be invited tough decisions need to be made. Obviously there is the risk of offending people by not inviting them, but you can only do what is best for your circumstances. The simple truth is that there is  only a certain number of people you can invite and these people should be your nearest and dearest. Your wedding day is meant to be shared with the people that play important roles in your lifes and this is the criteria you need to use as a starting point. As you look back on your wedding in the years to come it’s nice to think that the people who you wanted to be there were there to share in your special occasion.

Plan your list of invitations like any other aspect of the wedding by writing a general list of everybody who you would consider inviting. Then trim the list to those you feel absolutely must be at the wedding.

Now look at the total cost of having these people at the wedding,  it is not just a matter of choosing who is to receive an invitation but there is also the matter of deciding on your wedding invitation verses,wedding invitation wording or phrases,the types of wedding invitations materials, favors etc.

Now when you have an idea of the total cost involved you know whether you can trim the wedding invitations list or not. Once you know this you can start the fun part of the process.

Choose invitation wording that appeals to both of you, and if you are really lucky keeps  those that are sticklers for wedding etiquette happy also  ( within your budget of course ! ). 

Remember the wedding invitation when received is a direct representation of you as individuals and you as a couple, so try to let some of your own style or personalities shine through.

Of course this is  just a starting point as once you start looking at the various styles and options that are available you will soon discover that there is a massive array of options with literally hundreds of wedding invitation ideas. Just remember that you need to stick to your original budgetary constraints or the whole process will take on a life of its own.

Choosing your favorite style etc. is really a fun part of wedding planning and something that you both can do as a couple, so keep it fun but keep it real by viewing the wedding invitations part as one part of the entire jigsaw that is your wedding day. And as with all good jigsaws all the pieces come neatly together to form a brilliant scene.