Wedding Breeze

When it comes to the speeches on your big day, sometimes you need to consider the bride and groom speeches together. The one thing we both decided upon was not to spoil the surprise and write our speeches together. But we did think that it might be a good idea to have a chat and figure out the direction we wanted our wedding speeches to go in. Click here to learn more: Bridegroom Speech Ideas.

Deciding on Who Says What

When it comes to any kind of speech, whether the grooms wedding speeches or the father of groom wedding speech, it can help to get your stories straight and make sure that every single speech isn’t repeating the other. This goes for groom speeches and father of the bride speeches but particularly the Brides speech. This is why it maybe a good idea to discuss at least the outline of the bride and groom speech with your better half.

It is not essential though for the bride and groom speech to be separate. Maybe only one of you want to the the speech or you may want to so a double act! If you still haven’t decided then I recommend you have a good discussion before moving onto the next steps.

Working out your Bride and Groom speech

Once you’ve decided it’s a good idea to talk to your future wife and ask whether she’s preparing a speech herself. Chances are that you will both have a few of the same ideas, such as telling stories of how you met and what you’ve done together.

It would therefore be good to compare notes so that you cover different topics. Another idea is to both cover the story of how you both got together but from differing points of view. This could add a bit of excitement to the bride and groom speech and be quite funny!

Finding bride and groom wedding speech ideas together isn’t always done, but I think sharing some ideas – while still keeping the speeches private until the big day – can be really inspiration. Better still, check out some speech examples to really help your speech be what you want it to be! Click here if you would like to learn how to write a great groom speech: Groom Speeches.